Cooperation in fleeting encounters
Instrumental rationality is the normative pressure for me to increase, maintain or restore my own welfare. Cooperative rationality is the normative pressure for me to promote my own welfare as well as that of my collaborative partners, impartially.
Evolved moral norms are impartial methods of promoting “our” mutual evolutionary fitness. A social norm is an impartial method of cooperating in otherwise competitive circumstances (Tomasello, 2016).
When we collaborate with strangers in a fleeting encounter, for example in a negotiation
to move past each other in a crowded train carriage, when one is pushing a drinks
trolley, we behave according to “as-
We know why I want to maximise my interests: instrumental normativity. Two further
explanations are required: of 1) other-
Other-
Humans care for each other in general because we are interdependent in cooperation and sharing: we need each other, therefore we care for each other and feel compassion for other humans in general. For me, as a group member, other group members are valuable as fellow collaborators, therefore I respect them.
We also demand a basic level of respect from others as equals. This is for all kinds of reasons, such as:
Impartiality and objectivity

Impartiality is derived from self-
Self-
When people come together to collaborate, they form a joint agent “we” which governs “you” and “I” legitimately and impartially (Tomasello, 2016). “You” and “I” have our individual perspectives of the collaboration, and “we” carries a “bird’s eye view” perspective of all its goals, roles, and activities. The perspective of “we” is thereby impartial: its partners are equivalent, in that they are in principle interchangeable, and are equally subject to the requirements and rules connected with their roles.
“We” can be interpersonal, a property of individuals collaborating together, or it can be collective, a property of a whole large social group, collaborating with the joint goal of mutual thriving, surviving and reproducing.
The proposal is that when two in-
Norms are impartial
Social and moral norms are impartial because they represent the demands of cooperation, and everyone is forced equally to bow before the physical requirements of cooperation, if they want to cooperate. We may think of it as like going to work: the rules apply to everyone.
More precisely: norms and their enforcement are “three-
Hence, norms are expected to apply equally to all in-
Background of compassion, fairness, cooperation and objectivity
When it comes to a fleeting interaction where competition is a possibility, therefore, we already know what to do – cooperate and coordinate according to local norms, mutual respect, and the impartial achievement of mutual benefit. This is precisely what we would agree to (as a moral option) if we could explicitly negotiate. Your well being is maintained impartially, my well being is maintained impartially; cooperation, norms and respect are methods of achieving this; and everyone is happy.
References
Le Pargneux A; N Chater; and H Zeitoun (2024) – “Contractualist tendencies and reasoning in moral judgment and decision making”; Cognition. 2024 Aug; 249:105838. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cognition.2024.105838 ; Epub 2024 Jun 1. PMID: 38824696
Tomasello, Michael (2016) – “A Natural History of Human Morality”; Harvard University Press, Cambridge MA